Relationships are the most precious things in the journey of life. However, some people do not value relationships enough. As a result, there will be rifts in relationships and minds will drift apart.
Certain behavioral disorders and other personality disorders play a major role in creating rifts in relationships. This often occurs in workplaces. These issues that originate in workplaces can cause big damage to relationships.
Some people speak dominantly. These people act as if they are the head and authority over everything and treat everyone else as their subject. Others would keep a distance from those who have such domineering tendencies. This applies not only to the workplace but also to the family. Such totalitarian people, who are so oppressive in their families, will not be accepted among their family members – be it wife, husband, father, or mother.
Time is one of the greatest gifts you can give to others. Some people regularly and continuously arrive very late to the office and meetings. These people do not value other people’s time. We must be on time and be punctual. Try to follow this policy as much as possible. If you say you will come at ten o’clock, you must have arrived at ten o’clock. An office staff, who regularly comes late to the office, is looked down upon and ridiculed by others.
No one likes people who do not respect the feelings of others. ‘Empathy is important’. Empathy is understanding the feelings of others and dealing with them empathetically. Empathy is the cornerstone of meaningful relationships. A relationship with someone who does not respect or understand your feelings will slowly wither.
Some people always like to be victims. They would claim that they are innocent. They would complain that others hunt them. They like to wear the victim’s cap. While they may find it decorative, others will distance themselves from such persons.
People generally do not like those who value wealth, beauty, and status more than relationships, especially qualities like sincerity, honesty, etc. Because these people value wealth and money over personality. People prefer to avoid those who love only wealth and ignore personality.
There are some people who do not appreciate or praise their colleagues or friends when they achieve success. These people never say a single compliment. Such people are failures as individuals. All human beings want their efforts to be recognized and appreciated by others.
There are some couples who have never complimented each other even after living together for fifty years as married couples. There are people who have worked in the same office for years and never received a single word of appreciation. These people will feel distant from their boss and spouse, who never congratulate them.
All that is said above is also a manifestation of a person’s selfishness. No one can ever accept or love a selfish person.
