We will not always be able to take a favourable stand in everything. In personal relationships, official relationships and marital relationships, there are three opinions when two people come together. While it is natural to disagree, there are a few things we should be aware of.
Disagreements need to be healthy. There is a word called respect for the opposition. Even if you can’t agree conceptually, don’t express that disagreement in an unhealthy way. Haven’t we had many conversations that start with peace and then end in a fight? This happens because it’s not healthy to disagree. How can this be avoided? Here are
some suggestions:
Be mindful of your language
Don’t make fun of or criticize the person who expressed his opinion. Use good language. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. But the other person will not feel the same way. When you understand this, you can’t talk down or belittle the other person. Do not react out of anger or jealousy. Disagree respectfully. Disagreement with individuals can weaken relationships.
Check for accuracy
Assess your motives when expressing disagreement with another. Some people will suppress the opinions of others because they fear that the other one will be widely praised or become more acceptable. This counter-attack is due to jealousy and hatred. In such a situation, the resistance will be very strong. To avoid this, one needs to discern one’s own intention.
Avoid pre-conceived notions
Some people react with prejudice as soon as someone starts talking. This is due to misconceptions about the person who opined. This is not the right way. Be willing to listen and allow them to talk.Â
