Negative thoughts play a vital role in hindering success in the life of a man; such thoughts not only thwart success but also curtail the level of success. How many of you are entertaining negative thoughts that stand in the way of personal growth and success?
Doubting oneself
You can call negative thoughts a ‘silent killer.’ Thought such as:
“Can I succeed in doing it?’
“Do I have the ability to do that…?”
“Will I be able to take this responsibility?’
Such doubts break our confidence and discourage us from taking up responsibilities. When you don’t believe in your abilities, you will not be able to perform things effectively. We have the ability and we will be able to do it. But self-doubt will haunt us and thwart our efforts. Conquer this doubting nature and go ahead. Repeat these words in your mind several times: “I can do this. I have the ability to do it.”
Fear of failure
The thought of failure deters many from action. As a result, we become inactive. Without first making an attempt, how can we know whether we will win or lose? But without even exploring our possibilities, we sometimes pull back from them out of fear of failure. This is a huge impediment to success. We need to understand one thing. Success is not just about avoiding failure. Every failure has the potential to make us stronger and wiser. So, work without fear of failure.
Being a perfectionist
Some people insist on one hundred percent perfection in everything they do. This kind of obstinacy can keep us from even making a try towards success.
Unnecessary comparisons
Many people hate themselves by comparing themselves with others unnecessarily and in an unhealthy way. These constant comparisons drive individuals into self-loathing. Acknowledging and recognizing oneself is an important part of the path to success. True success is never achieved through comparisons but through authentic and personal growth.
The right mindset
Prejudices are barriers to success. It sets limits to our capabilities. If you act with the prejudice that this would end up only this way, you will never be able to achieve the success you deserve and are capable of.
Negative talk
Some people speak very pessimistically about anyone and anything because of the insecurities and doubts they feel within.
These people say: “Oh, this can’t be right… That can’t be done!” Such negative talk can even stunt your efforts to succeed. Check which of these thoughts is standing in the way of your success.
