Decision making is an art. When a person makes a decision, the pros and cons of that decision follow him. That is why decision making is said to be a decisive moment in life that influences one’s entire life.
That means, once you have taken a decision, you will have to face all the consequences of it as well. You will have to face it alone. When you make a decision, you are actually proclaiming to the society that you are ready to fight alone.
Each decision is a declaration. Each decision is making known your stance. Each decision is asserting a perspective of life. You are what you decide.
In life, there may be many occasions in which we struggle to make a decision. There may also be moments when we regret our decisions.
Those who are incapable of making a decision frequently approach others for solutions and seek help to make decisions on trivial matters. By that, we are actually entrusting the responsibility of our life to other persons and getting ourselves free from the responsibility. Besides, we also get someone to put all the blame on when that decision backfires.
Hence, if someone comes to you seeking help to make a decision, do not take a decision for him; instead express your opinion on the issue and persuade him to take that decision by himself.
There is nothing wrong in approaching others to get advice on certain issues. But, make sure that you yourselves are taking the decision. When we entrust the task of decision making to other persons, you are actually running away from your responsibility. By that, you are failing again.
Even after making a good decision, the way forward need not be easy and problem-free. It takes time to execute good decisions and to reap their fruits. We might face mental struggles even when you try to execute them. At that moment, we might even doubt if that decision was correct or not.
Grow up by making decisions. Do not be afraid about your decisions going wrong. Examine if you have a chance to rectify them if they go wrong. If it is good decision, it will enhance your self-confidence and enable you to take up more challenges.
The lives of many people are beautiful because they have taken right decisions. Likewise, some others owe to the wrong decision for their misery. Do not back out from taking a decision due to the fear of going wrong. Because, your decision is your future.
