As social beings, people inevitably interact with a wide variety of people. Some individuals we like, while others we don’t. With certain people, we try to adjust, and some we choose to ignore completely. Deciding whom to accept and whom to avoid is a personal choice.
Among the diverse personalities we encounter, there is one group that is notoriously difficult to deal with: narcissists, particularly those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). If a colleague, classmate, or friend falls into this category, you can distance yourself from them if necessary. However, life becomes especially challenging if your life partner exhibits these traits.
Traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder
NPD is a psychological condition characterized by excessive self-importance: They are obsessed with their status and recognition, often irrationally so. Narcissists constantly seek praise but rarely offer kind words in return. They struggle to accept others and often criticize their partner or colleagues, even in trivial matters. Genuine relationships are rare for narcissists, and they fail to recognize or appreciate the goodness in others. Despite appearing confident, they cannot handle even the slightest criticism. They often envy others while imagining that others are envious of them. Narcissists may also humiliate their partners in public, use offensive language, and manipulate people for personal gain.
How to Deal with Narcissists?
First, it is important to understand that NPD cannot be completely cured with medication or therapy because narcissists do not perceive their behavior as problematic. Certain things are like bad breath. Those who have it won’t realize it but others are prone to tolerate it. Narcissists believe they are perfect, which prevents them from seeking help on their own.
Here’s how to manage interactions with narcissists-Realize that you have to interact with narcissists-persons with specific psychological condition. Don’t over trust or over love them- Narcissists may exploit your affection for their benefit. In some cases, therapy can help if the narcissist recognizes their behavior and actively seeks improvement. Set boundaries while you interact with narcissists. Prioritize your mental health- Protect yourself from their negative influence. Don’t expect quick changes- Since narcissism is a personality trait, change is slow and unlikely without self-awareness.
Identifying a Narcissist
You can recognize narcissistic behavior through excessive self-importance, lack of empathy, envy and belief that others are envious of them, exploiting others for personal gain.
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Narcissists rarely apologize. If they do, it is often insincere. Their talk will be filled with self-justifications.Six Percent of
The Population
Studies suggest that one to six percent of the population may exhibit NPD. If you or someone close to you fits this description, understanding the condition is the first step toward managing the challenges it brings.
