Most of the people will bow down before criticism. Nobody likes the voice of resentment. But is it a thing to be afraid? No. We fear resentments because we take them personally and emotionally. We sometimes take it as the reflection of other’s hatred for us. Therefore we can’t accept any sort of criticism. The depth of warmth between the two persons also matters. What prompted him to say so? His jealousy or his interest in me? The uneasiness in my prospects or his wish for my betterment? Understanding the demarcation between these two possibilities is a must to face the criticism in a healthy way.
Is there any fact in the criticism? If you think that there is, try to rectify it. If you think the criticism holds no water just leave it. Appreciation is good. Similarly criticism also is good. Continuous praises may hinder our growth as we tend to think that we are perfect and won’t be ready for any change or betterment. But if you are criticized you realize that there is something wrong and it need to be corrected. It will help you to correct yourself wherever necessary and to improve yourselves. Those who criticize also should remember one thing. Don’t criticize in a cruel and harassing way. The way you wish to be criticized is applicable when you criticize others. The tone of criticism is very important. We can say the same thing in different ways.
Don’t take the criticism emotionally. If we do so it may defeat us. When you are being criticized don’t be in a hurry to oppose or defend it. Surely those who are confident of their ability can welcome the criticism. If you think you can’t tolerate any sort of criticism, there is only one reason-you find happiness only in the words of others and you are doubtful of your own abilities.
