LOVE
Love is a great word, a great concept that supports the whole world. Human relationships become worthless without love. Being alive on earth will lose its relevance without love. It is the feeling of love that makes everything strong and makes them capable of living, working, and dreaming about tomorrow.
We understand someone’s love not just because he or she says ‘I LOVE YOU.’ Love can be recognized through his actions, behavior, and presence. Actions speak louder than words.
In such a situation, psychology offers some clues to understand another person’s love easily. They are ways to express love and recognize the love that is expressed without the medium of words.
THE TOUCH
Touch is the most powerful form of communication. Emotional expressions are transferred through physical touch. Touch is a means to enhance safety and intimacy. When you touch someone silently, when you walk with your finger locked with your beloved’s, when you put your face on your darling’s shoulder, you will be able to feel love.
SERVICE
Love is manifested when someone realizes the needs of the other and fulfills them. It can be the financial help he extends to a friend who is in financial crisis without even asking, or it can be the knowledge he imparts to his classmate, and the lift he gives to a passer-by. Notice the needs of others and always be ready to help. That is another sign of love. In family life, the help that partners give to each other, and the services that children give to their parents are also manifestations of love.
ATTENTION
Attention given to others is one of the most precious things in the life of man, who is a social being. Give our full attention to someone when he is talking or when he is around. Behaving nervously, looking away, and looking at the phone are all distractions to a person. It means that we don’t care or love him enough. If you find your children, spouse, or parents are disregarding you, when you start to talk about something, or if they are listening to you carelessly, it means that there is no love between you and them.
GIVE A SURPRISE
Surprises given to loved ones are proofs of love. For example, if you are a husband, do all the household tasks when your wife comes home after her work, or if you are a wife, give your husband a gift for his birthday, which he has forgotten, or visit a friend without giving a hint. Life becomes warmer with these surprises and surprise gifts.
It is important to give proofs and solid signs of love, even though you need not brag about it. Love becomes more valuable when it is expressed. Expressions of love know no bounds. The more love you express, the more you become a loving person.
