The number of parents who feel helpless, watching their children become addicted to mobile phones is increasing. Many parents are worried, not knowing how to keep their kids away from phones. In this situation, Alex Stamos, former Security Officer at Facebook and Yahoo, shares some advice for parents: when to give a mobile phone to children and what precautions to take once it is given.
Don’t Give a Phone Before Thirteen
Children should not be given a mobile phone before the age of thirteen. Parents should consider the child’s maturity and sense of responsibility before handing over a phone. Thirteen is generally the age when children can begin to handle things with some maturity. That is why experts say children should get phones only from this age onward.
Decide on the Apps
There are many different apps-some meant for children, others for adults. Parents should be aware of the apps their kids use. Only apps that parents know about and approve should be allowed.
Parents Should Keep the Passwords
If a child is given their own phone, the passwords should be set and known by the parents.
Regular Checking is Necessary
Parents should check their child’s phone from time to time-what they are doing, what they are watching and with whom they are communicating.
No Phones at Night
Children should not be allowed to use mobile phones at night.
Social Media Only After Adulthood
Children should use social media only after they become adults. When kids create profiles before the right age-often by faking their age they put themselves at risk.
Encourage Open Communication
When children make mistakes online or through social media, don’t scold or punish them harshly. Instead, give them the freedom to speak openly with parents when something goes wrong. Parents should act as protectors, not punishers.
Use Technical Controls
Make use of technical safety tools such as Communication Safety. This helps prevent the sending or receiving of inappropriate images like nude pictures.
