Complaints are to be said. Also we have the right to say complaints. However a limit is needed for the complaints too. Some people always complain of one thing or other. Following are some of the common traits of complaining people. ‘Everything has become worse than that of the bygone days.’ ‘In the past it wasn’t like this one.’ ‘When I was young things were different.’ Often we see people with such opinions. This is a form of saying complaints. Certain things of the past may have the so called virtue in them. But it doesn’t mean that everything of the present time has lost its value.
An indifferent attitude to suggestions and solutions
An indifferent attitude to suggestions and solutions indicates that the person wish to remain within the shackles of complaints. Accepting the suggestions may solve the problems. But you don’t take that step, because you find happiness and satisfaction in complaints.
Completely avoiding the happy moments
It may be difficult to find the positive side of every sorrowful situations in our life. However if you are avoiding completely the good and happy moments in your life that means your mind will become happy only while saying complaints. Although it is rather easy to find the negative than the positive side of everything, finding the negative alone is bad.
Complaints alone will be effective
Some are of the view that they would get even their rightful things only after saying complaints. Raising your sound may become necessary in certain circumstances. But this is a different thing. Suppose everyone are on a queue. Without any provocation somebody from behind may become restless and shouts that it is the fault of those standing in front of him that the queue is not moving. Such shouts are unnecessary and inappropriate.
More than complaints creative suggestions will definitely work wonders. Complaints emerge from intolerance whereas the creative suggestions and criticisms come from the intention of getting things properly. So stop complaining and give suggestions if you can.
Reduce your complaints to the least so that your life will become more peaceful. Those who see the negative side of things often complain without any basis. There are also positive sides in our life and in our surroundings. Realizing this fact will help you to abstain from saying complaints. The efforts from your part alone is what you needed for that.
Before Saying Complaints
Assess the various perspectives before saying complaints about a subject or a person. Then a new possibility will be opened before you. Instead of saying complaints try to be thankful to others. Sure, the life will seem more beautiful.
