How To Discern A Bad Colleague?

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A healthy atmosphere at your workplace is essential for you to perform well at work. Healthy friendships from your colleagues and support and appreciation of the authorities are vital factors. Unfortunately, that is not the case in many workplaces. We will be interested to know if our colleagues like us or if they maintain a grudge towards us. We can make out their attitude towards us if we examine these following behaviors:

They avoid facing you

If they shift their gaze away from your face, even when they come right against you or if they evade you, then you need to understand that those colleagues do not like your presence.

They steal the glory of your work

They will steal the glory of your work as if it is theirs. They will snatch the appreciation and accolades due to you. They will also foil your potential promotions.

They will try to become your boss

Even though they are doing the same job and have the same rank as you, they will act as if they are your boss. They will reprimand you, correct you and advise you as a part of this.

They will encourage you to resign

If someone is saying to you that you are not a person to work here; but you need to go further to reach higher levels, then take his advice only with a pinch of salt. Some people will be saying it sincerely. I exempt them. We can discern the difference between the sincere ones and the crooked ones.

They will disregard your opinions

When you work together as a team, they not only disregard you, but also belittle your views and opinions.

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