A general notion exists that thoughts based on ‘I’ are dangerous. Many people justify this notion on the ground that the root cause of all relationship problems is based on ‘I’. But, where does ‘I’ become a problem? Is ‘I’ as problematic as everyone thinks?
‘I’ becomes a problem not because ‘I’ leave a mark of myself or ‘I’ live according to my ways, but when I am not able to accept myself or when I get upset over myself. The real problem is not ‘I’, but your thoughts about ‘me’.
‘I’ am myself. I can laugh and smile only like myself. I can think only like myself. Why should you get upset because I am myself? Why are you taking all this trouble to make me like you?
If I do not exist, do you exist or do we exist? Everything starts with ‘I’. Everything ends in ‘I’. I am happy in being myself. I am proud of being myself. Love me as myself, and do not think about what I was or what I could become.
In this world, there is no one like me. Neither there is anyone like you. Yes, I will be myself, always. I am not ready to change myself for you. I am not ready to feel inferior thinking of you. Just I am I, you be you. Let us lighten the world by being me and you. Let us exist as we are.
