Does love have a language?
Absolutely. Many of the discomforts and unrests in relationships arise because this language is either not understood or not recognised.
Keep Your Word
Keeping promises is a clear sign of love. Many people make promises, but fail to keep them either because they are uncertain themselves or because they don’t take their words seriously. This weakens and complicates relationships.
If you’ve given your word, be willing to keep it-do whatever it takes to fulfill it. That is why it is often said: don’t make promises in haste.
Spend Time Together
Whether in a marital relationship, a friendship, or a family bond, spending time together is essential. Time is the greatest gift one can give another. You can’t buy it, but you can find it-if you care enough.
The time you find and spend with someone is a proof of your love. There are parents who long to spend time with their children. Couples who wish to make the moments they meet more joyful. Friends who want to reconnect after a long time. If you love someone, spend time with them. Every moment spent for another becomes a mark of the love you hold for them.
Give Gifts
Spending time and keeping promises might still not be understood as love by some people. For those, gifts become a way to communicate love. Gifts are symbols of affection. Whether on special occasions or not give as per your ability. However, don’t misunderstand that gifts alone define love.
Help Each Other
Being ready to help someone-especially in critical times or by understanding their situation-is another expression of love. In a marriage, it might mean sharing household responsibilities. In friendships, it could mean helping financially or emotionally.
Backing away when someone truly needs help is a clear sign that love may be missing.
Not standing by someone during times of hardship-whether you’re a spouse or a friend-is strong evidence that love was never truly present.
We touch those we love
Nothing expresses love more deeply than touch. So don’t hold back. Touch those you love-let them feel your love in that touch. Let your touch speak for your heart.
