Relationships are valuable. There is no doubt in it. But are you sure that all the relationships that you call so are really valuable as you think? We attach too much importance to certain relationships. However are you getting it back with the same intensity? If the answer is no it is high time you broke that relationship.
This topic is relevant because you don’t need to get worried only out of the fact that you love somebody. When you love somebody you will trust him and expect that he will be with you in all your joys and sorrows. You wish that when you are in trouble the person you trust deeply will solace you. Also you share your joys at first with him. However all these remain only as your expectations. He may not with you in your sorrows. Even though you thought him as your best friend he never give back his love. For him you were only a stranger-somebody who is not related to him in anyway. For him you are not special to him, instead a person who is needed for him only in certain circumstances. He considered you only because you approached him. He remembered you only because you remembered him. He talked to you only because you gave him a call. He came with you only because you asked him. Without demanding he didn’t give you anything in his life. He does not need your presence, love or friendship. Even after realizing it if you continue with that relationship you are a stupid. It is advisable to keep away from such relationships. It is a sign of self respect. It is the surety and protection given to your own self respect. It is a must to avert self humiliation and self harassment.
I am late to realize that you were not with me in my joys and sorrows. Sometimes for that you may have your own justifications. But looking from my part all those justifications do not have merit in them. You never came to me. Never in my life you were with me in my needs. Since I can’t love everybody deeply I gave my extra love for you. But you didn’t need that love. Why should I follow with my love which you do not need? Here I end my run after a bus which did not stop to get me in.
