Why do you love others? Have you ever thought of it? When we love others we ourselves will enjoy the ultimate satisfaction and happiness resulting out of it. When we thought of others if our mind is filled with hatred and disgust these feelings will never affect them. This is also happens in the case of love. That is why even if you love others deeply they discard your love. Because when they think of you they don’t feel such a deep love for you. They don’t even think of you! We can’t love a person who doesn’t think of us. Similarly we will remember a person whom, we are sure that have true love for us.
If my mind is filled with happiness and peace when I think of you that thought, no doubt is beneficial to me. I love you for my happiness, for my peace of mind and satisfaction. There the love become selfish. Every love is a quest to find a way to satisfy ourselves. It is like finding a treasure in ourselves. Your ability to love is assessed by the number of persons you love with the same intensity. When I realize that I love you only for me, my frustrations that you don’t love me or you don’t behave as I expected get alleviated. Never will I complain that you don’t love me. I won’t be obstinate as before that you should love me. But even then I will love and continue with my love. Because when I love you it gives me so much happiness.
