It is said that three types of people should not be forgotten in life.
1. Those who helped in difficult situations of life
2. Those who pass unaided in helpless and distressed conditions
3. Those who are responsible for the current plight
We should have a lifelong love and gratitude for the first category of people. ‘Thank you’ that never ends. Love that never ends even when measured…
If we look back at our lives, how many people can we see? Those who gave me a job when I was in a situation of losing my job. Those who helped me when I was in a state of debt.
Often we have no prior knowledge or close friendships with any of these people. That is why they are angels. We should always light the candle of love before their memories.
All those who have passed without helping us in the second category will be those whom we have loved with our hearts. They will be the ones we hope will help. They will be the ones to whom we approach for help. At least once there are people we have helped in some way.
The people of the third category are the ones who put us in danger by making tempting promises. But we trusted them. They had been taken at face value. Their words and deeds have given us hope. But after putting it in danger, they stepped away. We ended up in terrible situations.
What is generally seen is that we slowly forget those who have helped us. Get help. A thank you, that’s it. But we will never forget those who are left un-helped and who are the cause of our plight. But all those memories will have the smoke of resentment. There will be the blush of revenge.
But if we think about it in another way, don’t we need gratitude and love for the people of the second and third category? Because they taught us lessons in a way that we cannot get even if we study at the best university in the world. It gave me the strength to face and overcome obstacles. So keep love, not anger or resentment towards those who have harmed us and those who have passed us without help.
When we hold grudges, when we continue in hatred, the harm is only to us. Instead, understand the lesson they have given you and move forward without hating them. We are the only ones who grow through it. We have the strength to survive because of them. Don’t look at adversity and negative experiences as negative and move forward with positivity.
Place these three categories of people on the shelf of memories.
